You want marriage problem solutions. I can help. I've gone through the same thing: the hopelessness, the depression, the anger, the frustration, and the sadness. In this brief article, I'll try and give you some ideas to ponder which will get you heading in the right direction in your search for marriage problem solutions.

O.K. I know you didn't want to hear that, but it's true. But perhaps not like you think. The reality is that you have choices whenever you do anything. That include in how you deal with your partner. You control what you say, what you do, your feelings, and all of your behaviors. You have much more control than you think.

And here's the kicker. You have much more control over your partner than you think.

It's easy to get caught up in how wrong your partner is, and how everything is their fault, if they'd only act a certain way or do things differently, then you wouldn't have any problems. But the truth is they are thinking exactly the same thing about you.

The truth is also that if you change the way you behave towards your partner, you can make a huge change in your relationship. Let's take a simple example. When your partner approaches you angry about how you spent too much money, your typical reaction may have been to get defensive and angry. You may have started telling them about all of the things they have spent money on, how they are too controlling, and how you have just as much right to the money as they do.

Then, you start talking about how they left the toilet seat up, their sister is a witch, and their favorite sports team are losers. Pretty soon frying pans are flying and divorce papers are filed.

On the other hand, if your partner comes to you angry about money, you could say something like 'oh I know, I shouldn't have done that. I'll use a little more will power next week.' And then they are still angry and say something else, to which you can then say that you understand, and thank them for handling the money, that you know it's a thankless job and you give them a hug. It might even turn into laughter and a loving moment.

You have the control to make that happen. You have the power to make that happen. Yes, it's difficult. All things worthwhile are difficult. But you can do it. These are marriage problem solutions that can have a huge difference in your relationship. All you have to do is put them into action.

All I ask is that you try my marriage problem solutions method for 30 days. If it doesn't work, you can go back to doing what you've always done. You will have lost nothing. However, I'd be amazed if you didn't notice a huge improvement in your relationship.